Celibate???

So I told a guy that I was Celibate. It was the first time that I had ever said it...to a guy. He totally didn't flip out or think that I was a weirdo. It was empowering. I know that he respected it and the way that he asked me for my phone number was so non-presumptuous...it makes me think that maybe I have been putting "hoe-swag" out there. And that's sad, because I am not a hoe.

And I feel so much more like myself when I'm not looking for "the possibility" of anything. I feel like I will be a better friend-mostly to myself. Is it already day 4? 361 more to go!!...lol!!!

Actually like Tamar said, when he puts a ring on it, I can put that thing on it. Until then I will just pray for my sexual desire to be more low-key.

Xoxo,
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