The Man Break...Defined

I actually felt that I needed to clarify this for myself, because brothers have been coming at me left and right.

Now this happens, but since I decided that I was going to be man/dick/drama free it seems like they are at least pretending to be on it a little more.  First of all I want to say that none of this applies when it comes to Ace, except for the Celibacy part.

Ace...he is the Prototype and he doesnt even know it.

Anyway, enough daydreaming...

TheManBreak means that I am not going to have sex PERIOD for at least one year.  But for reals, I really need to be Celibate until marriage.  It just keeps my mind from getting all loopy.

My TheManBreak Rules:

• Absolutely no sex.  Until the end of next May, like my first adult boyfriend-he will wait for me if he cares.
• Im no longer dressing in my "Man Trap" gear.  Whenever I dress it will be for me.
• I am semi-retiring the titties, now Im not saying that I wont look sexy but its going to be for MY benefit and I think that I need at least a "titty-free summer."
• I am not going to make decisions based on what I think that a guy would like, especially what he would like to see me dressed in.  This has gotten me nowhere.
• I am going to spend the time that I would spend occupied with my mind on my dick du jour and workout, focus on good eating habits, loving myself more, reading my Bible and overall building myself up.
• I will not tell a man that he is not welcome in my world, but I will tell him that he is not welcome in my vagina.  She needs a break and a man with a heart.
• I will be open with men about my celibacy.
• I will follow my instincts when it comes to men, if it smells like a skunk, Im no longer going to try and put perfume on it.
• I will tone down the sexiness.
• I will have conversations with men, but when they get too sexual, I will respect myself and him enough to curb it.

Im feeling like there might be more, but for now, this is it.  I just needed to know my own rules.
My new personal standards.

And Real talk, Ace needs to adhere to these rules as well...and since he is quite frankly the most respectable dude that I know, he would love these rules.

xoxo,
Sharelle 


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