I was in Instagram and one of the people that I follow posted the above message.
I said that "A Hug is the new Goodnight kiss." and I indicated my celibacy proudly. Dude told me that was a good idea since guys werent sh*t anyway. Then dude asked me if I was single as if to say that if I was more active I would have a man. And told me to keep up with him and let him know how it works for me.
I was like what a total opposite response...First he was like "Good Job." Then he was like... "Do you have man?"...Why do men have such a respect/hate relationship with a woman taking a personal stand against horizontal relationships outside of marriage?? They would want that for their sister, but not for you...since they might want to smash...I'm just like...Whatever, your first response was the best one...will most people wait until marriage, Nah...but at least wait until you get a real commitment...and not one that you make in bed...
SMH...
All this bullcrap is so much more transparent to me...and I finally feel free.
Xoxo,
Sharelle
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